The other day i had a serious question. Let me first let you guys know about my question. "Was Brahmins really dominating the society before or it was just their way of living that was misunderstood?". I wanted the answer for this question so decided let me put this as my FB status update, so that anyone who has a answer for this can give me one. And i thought i would get more opinions and that would be easy for me come to a conclusion.
I never expected such a response, within five minutes of that status update there were 4-5 friends of mine who were not at all happy with the question. They started to think that i'm a guy who looks people by their caste and differentiate people with castes and so on. I did not want to people to think in such a manner so immediately removed that from my wall. I was sad, why are people still afraid to answer some basics questions? Why are people still having that discrimination in mind? Why do people think when talks about caste, he is backward and not modern and so on?
Can anyone who reads this article answer my question. To make things clear I'm not caste biased nor religion biased. And I do not discriminate people with their color, religion, caste, nationality etc. Humans are Humans ...
Friday, March 25, 2011
Saturday, March 5, 2011
To the original KING
I have always respected you. I have always loved you. You will always be my Role-Model. You will always be my inspiration. You will always be remembered.
This is my dearest dedication to my and our most beloved THATHA. You are THE KING and always be one.
This is my dearest dedication to my and our most beloved THATHA. You are THE KING and always be one.
Sunday, February 13, 2011
Being Single
So is being single a boon or a bane?... Now just a minute let me complete my question, dont be in hurry to answer the question. Being single after 60, is it a boon or a bane? Ya, this time i want to write about being single after you have finished all your so called "duties". I think the toughest part is being single after 60.
When you are young and single its only the desire to be with someone that drives you. That is you need a partner just to be with you through out life and to share everything and sometimes its only the desire to have a partner. Therefore being single in one's youthful days is not a major worry,as he/she has other major other works to do such as education, job, money etc. this list continues.
Now after he has finished all these, he is done with his education and worked for about 30 years and earned a lot of money, fame and what say... and now he has lost his better half or now single !!! its tough...This is the time when any human needs a person to share their feelings and questions and more than that they need someone to support.
These people (I mean those who are single after 60) are the most misunderstood people in the whole world. These people are the people who needs the most care and affection. They have done everything in life, given good education to their children helped many on their active days. But now when they just need little attention,but we miss giving them that.
Those who all are reading this would have experienced this and would have done this without their knowledge. They would not have known that this might affect them. All the so called "aged old" person in the house just needs your attention towards him for just a small amount of your time. But we all dont give them that. You are busy all day everyone knows, even the person knows he is not going to stop you from doing your work. He just needs your attention when you are free.
They sit at the home seeing those useless four walls and not talking to anyone, everyone in the home would have now gone to either office or school. All day they have been thinking of the moment when someone will comeback home, and when they come back they just expect a couple of pleasantries. But what happens normally is that they start of the topic by asking how the day was to you, but what we do is we do not even reply to that in perfect manner.
This is like you are standing in a lonely sunny highway waiting for someone to come and give you a lift. What would your expectations be? Simple someone would come to take to your destination. Is this expectation too much or bad or disturbing the fellow. NO!!!. The same is that of the old people sitting in the house without any company. All they need is to talk to you for sometime.
So all you guys when you go back home just go and sit and talk with them at least for some time. I have not specified any time mind you. They will feel a lot better and after all they are elders their blessings are invaluable it will always with you. So please do spend some time with them they have done lot for us through out their lifetime now its our time to give back to them
THANK YOU
When you are young and single its only the desire to be with someone that drives you. That is you need a partner just to be with you through out life and to share everything and sometimes its only the desire to have a partner. Therefore being single in one's youthful days is not a major worry,as he/she has other major other works to do such as education, job, money etc. this list continues.
Now after he has finished all these, he is done with his education and worked for about 30 years and earned a lot of money, fame and what say... and now he has lost his better half or now single !!! its tough...This is the time when any human needs a person to share their feelings and questions and more than that they need someone to support.
These people (I mean those who are single after 60) are the most misunderstood people in the whole world. These people are the people who needs the most care and affection. They have done everything in life, given good education to their children helped many on their active days. But now when they just need little attention,but we miss giving them that.
Those who all are reading this would have experienced this and would have done this without their knowledge. They would not have known that this might affect them. All the so called "aged old" person in the house just needs your attention towards him for just a small amount of your time. But we all dont give them that. You are busy all day everyone knows, even the person knows he is not going to stop you from doing your work. He just needs your attention when you are free.
They sit at the home seeing those useless four walls and not talking to anyone, everyone in the home would have now gone to either office or school. All day they have been thinking of the moment when someone will comeback home, and when they come back they just expect a couple of pleasantries. But what happens normally is that they start of the topic by asking how the day was to you, but what we do is we do not even reply to that in perfect manner.
This is like you are standing in a lonely sunny highway waiting for someone to come and give you a lift. What would your expectations be? Simple someone would come to take to your destination. Is this expectation too much or bad or disturbing the fellow. NO!!!. The same is that of the old people sitting in the house without any company. All they need is to talk to you for sometime.
So all you guys when you go back home just go and sit and talk with them at least for some time. I have not specified any time mind you. They will feel a lot better and after all they are elders their blessings are invaluable it will always with you. So please do spend some time with them they have done lot for us through out their lifetime now its our time to give back to them
THANK YOU
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
WOMEN
Okay now I'm going to write about a completely different topic this time. This not about politics nor a post that has got nothing in it. This post i'm trying to write about some male do not accept that easily nor do i. This post is going to be about male dominance and chauvinistic attitude of male. I still cant understand if this attitude is good or bad.
When Gandhi called for sathyagraha he never called a single man, he called the women of every house to come and join the movement. He was the one who believed that women were most capable than men in all aspect. He said women were only clan who can smile and welcome a guest to the house even if there are hundreds of problem at home.
Why go to Gandhi and all. My Amma at home she is the perfect example of what a women can achieve in her life. I will just say the work that she does all day and then one can decide if a woman is more stronger than man. She goes for a early walk in the morning and comes and cooks for the entire house and this includes the breakfast and the lunch for the entire house, All this would be done by morning 8. After that she readies herself for her work. She works in a bank. There she works equivalent to all the men folk in the Bank. The Works gets over by 5 in the evening and comes back home. After she is back its all not easy she then after a small break goes and starts preparing for the night dinner. In between all these she used to help me and my sister with our homework, socialize with the nieghbours, keep in touch with all relations and keep herself updated with the current affairs and nations' progress. Whoa all these by a single lady in a single day.
After all these men think they are the best and they also need respect it seems. I still can not understand why a women for no reason respect male. If he being a male is only the reason for him gaining respect then that is a humbug.
I being a male never ever in my life would expect a women to respect me because i'm a male. I will also blame the women folk for all these, they give undue respect to male and thats the reason why the men expect these "respects".
According to me a MAN who does not know how to respect WOMAN can never be a MAN...
When Gandhi called for sathyagraha he never called a single man, he called the women of every house to come and join the movement. He was the one who believed that women were most capable than men in all aspect. He said women were only clan who can smile and welcome a guest to the house even if there are hundreds of problem at home.
Why go to Gandhi and all. My Amma at home she is the perfect example of what a women can achieve in her life. I will just say the work that she does all day and then one can decide if a woman is more stronger than man. She goes for a early walk in the morning and comes and cooks for the entire house and this includes the breakfast and the lunch for the entire house, All this would be done by morning 8. After that she readies herself for her work. She works in a bank. There she works equivalent to all the men folk in the Bank. The Works gets over by 5 in the evening and comes back home. After she is back its all not easy she then after a small break goes and starts preparing for the night dinner. In between all these she used to help me and my sister with our homework, socialize with the nieghbours, keep in touch with all relations and keep herself updated with the current affairs and nations' progress. Whoa all these by a single lady in a single day.
After all these men think they are the best and they also need respect it seems. I still can not understand why a women for no reason respect male. If he being a male is only the reason for him gaining respect then that is a humbug.
I being a male never ever in my life would expect a women to respect me because i'm a male. I will also blame the women folk for all these, they give undue respect to male and thats the reason why the men expect these "respects".
According to me a MAN who does not know how to respect WOMAN can never be a MAN...
Saturday, January 29, 2011
Where is India Going ??
It has been the worst period for India as a whole. With the Congress in the center according to me India is not in safe hands. How many corruptions can a country see at a time. How many loss can a country get. How many bad people can this country have in power. How many time can this country get up after a huge fall. How many people on the verge of correcting India lose their life. This blog post of mine is an outfall of what i read about what is going on in INDIA...
Recently the INIDA TODAY had carried a cover story. About $500 billion USD of Indian money is stuck in foreign land and in tax heavens. that $500 billion has been routed out of India since its independence,and this amounts to half of our GDP.
The next big thing is the shame of Commonwealth is like a pain in the neck. the internatinal media went after our country for not getting things ready for the Games. Beijing for its Olympics did the dress rehearsal for the event a year in advance. But here in India the stadium itself was not ready even a week in advance.
The next is the Madhu Khoda was the CM of a smaller state in the country and he has looted around $550 crores. All have forgotten about this man. He was put in the position so that people thought he will do some good for the state but the result is ...BAD ...VERY BAD....
The next thing is the Adharsh housing scam. How can a CM allot housing for his relations, when the houses was dedicated to WAR HEROES. Is this the respect that a CM shows to the people who lost their life for the nation. This shows the cheap mentality of the current day politicians.
The next big thing that is growing these days are the OIL MAFIA. the increasing prices of oil has lead to a trend of oil mafia. People smuggle the oil from the government and sell it in the market. I read in a article that a man is said to have been doing this and has been earning around 25 lacs per day. And when the collector had caught him red handed, he was burnt in the same oil...SAD...VERY SAD
The inflation, this government is having 3 Finance Ministers in the Cabinet and they cannot curb the inflation Onions in places are costlier than a bottle of beer.
The next big loss for government of India is through a single man and his party. The mother of all scam 2G scam. The estimated loss is about 1.74 lakh core Rs. And all these are done with the knowledge of the Government and the so called "honest" Prime Minister. How can the head of a group of corrupt ministers be good.
All these are only few of the many things that are happening in the country all these are not small scale and all these are not done by small people. Its all done by the CMs , MPs and suddenly the PM is in this band wagon...
I'm totally depressed by the way this Indian government is progerssing. We all deserve something better and good.
People of Tamil Nadu please before voting this year open your eyes and ears. The fate of Tamil Nadu is in your hands only .
Thank You.
Recently the INIDA TODAY had carried a cover story. About $500 billion USD of Indian money is stuck in foreign land and in tax heavens. that $500 billion has been routed out of India since its independence,and this amounts to half of our GDP.
The next big thing is the shame of Commonwealth is like a pain in the neck. the internatinal media went after our country for not getting things ready for the Games. Beijing for its Olympics did the dress rehearsal for the event a year in advance. But here in India the stadium itself was not ready even a week in advance.
The next is the Madhu Khoda was the CM of a smaller state in the country and he has looted around $550 crores. All have forgotten about this man. He was put in the position so that people thought he will do some good for the state but the result is ...BAD ...VERY BAD....
The next thing is the Adharsh housing scam. How can a CM allot housing for his relations, when the houses was dedicated to WAR HEROES. Is this the respect that a CM shows to the people who lost their life for the nation. This shows the cheap mentality of the current day politicians.
The next big thing that is growing these days are the OIL MAFIA. the increasing prices of oil has lead to a trend of oil mafia. People smuggle the oil from the government and sell it in the market. I read in a article that a man is said to have been doing this and has been earning around 25 lacs per day. And when the collector had caught him red handed, he was burnt in the same oil...SAD...VERY SAD
The inflation, this government is having 3 Finance Ministers in the Cabinet and they cannot curb the inflation Onions in places are costlier than a bottle of beer.
The next big loss for government of India is through a single man and his party. The mother of all scam 2G scam. The estimated loss is about 1.74 lakh core Rs. And all these are done with the knowledge of the Government and the so called "honest" Prime Minister. How can the head of a group of corrupt ministers be good.
All these are only few of the many things that are happening in the country all these are not small scale and all these are not done by small people. Its all done by the CMs , MPs and suddenly the PM is in this band wagon...
I'm totally depressed by the way this Indian government is progerssing. We all deserve something better and good.
People of Tamil Nadu please before voting this year open your eyes and ears. The fate of Tamil Nadu is in your hands only .
Thank You.
Friday, January 28, 2011
To my Fans
WooW just saw the stats in my blog there were people who read my blog from the Russia. Hey i cant stop laughing, till date i thought that i was writing the blog to a empty audience to some people who i compel to read my blog. After they read, they never come back to me and tell how they feel about my blog. So i was in a perception that no one reads and i used to write all crap on this space.
Now i can see some of my friends from Russia are reading my blog, i should become a responsible writer and the competition has grown. Many of them also have started writing their own blog.
So to all my Russian friends who did the sin by reading my blog, are going to get more of my stuff soon. And the usual empty audience and the compelled audience...you guys are going to now get to read more stuff regularly from my blog...
Now i can see some of my friends from Russia are reading my blog, i should become a responsible writer and the competition has grown. Many of them also have started writing their own blog.
So to all my Russian friends who did the sin by reading my blog, are going to get more of my stuff soon. And the usual empty audience and the compelled audience...you guys are going to now get to read more stuff regularly from my blog...
Tuesday, January 4, 2011
The Kings since 2009
Phew i cant believe that i have been writing in this space for the past two years. So I'm a experienced blogger when compared to those who have started now. Last evening my friend sent me link and said that it was his blog and he had started writing now and asked for my reviews. I laughed for a moment(here is someone who is asking my reviews for his works.... i remember that i was troubling many of them to do it when i was new) and replied that i would read and say, how his blog was. Hmm his was something like mine only, nothing much different, but his was straight forward but my blog posts are never.
One of my friend once read my blog said that most of my blog posts are like the editorial of any newspaper. Wow i was flattered and asked him what made him say like that. He replied, the editorials are mostly boring and are the opinions and ideas that are put forth that can never be practically feasible. Opinions differ and my political opinions have been rubbished by many. I only say one thing to all who have read my political views in this blog.... this is only some 10% of all the ideas i have to develop this Mother India.. will do it ...not in a day not in a month or year its going to take some time. So for you guys time can only be the answer.
The other thing that i have tried to mix while i write in my blog is humor. I dont know if that has gone down well with the readers. Most of my blog's humor topics will not have topic. Sometime I to sit to write a blog post, but no topics comes to my mind so i write what is going thru my mind at that moment of time. This is one of the techniques that i use to keep my blog alive at least somewhat.
So to the usual empty audience who comes regularly to see if i have updated something, here is something that you can learn something from me.
I have a doubt seriously, last week when i checked from which country people read my blog,I was shocked some of them have read my blog from Russia. Goyalee... Russia OMG is my blog so popular, ah no way how can it be says my brain, my heart says you rule the world whats there people from Russia read it.. continue your good work..
Since this is the Second Anniversary of my blog there something special for all readers .... another blog post comming soon......very soon....
One of my friend once read my blog said that most of my blog posts are like the editorial of any newspaper. Wow i was flattered and asked him what made him say like that. He replied, the editorials are mostly boring and are the opinions and ideas that are put forth that can never be practically feasible. Opinions differ and my political opinions have been rubbished by many. I only say one thing to all who have read my political views in this blog.... this is only some 10% of all the ideas i have to develop this Mother India.. will do it ...not in a day not in a month or year its going to take some time. So for you guys time can only be the answer.
The other thing that i have tried to mix while i write in my blog is humor. I dont know if that has gone down well with the readers. Most of my blog's humor topics will not have topic. Sometime I to sit to write a blog post, but no topics comes to my mind so i write what is going thru my mind at that moment of time. This is one of the techniques that i use to keep my blog alive at least somewhat.
So to the usual empty audience who comes regularly to see if i have updated something, here is something that you can learn something from me.
I have a doubt seriously, last week when i checked from which country people read my blog,I was shocked some of them have read my blog from Russia. Goyalee... Russia OMG is my blog so popular, ah no way how can it be says my brain, my heart says you rule the world whats there people from Russia read it.. continue your good work..
Since this is the Second Anniversary of my blog there something special for all readers .... another blog post comming soon......very soon....
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